IT IS HIS LOSS and NEVER YOURS. (For Girls)

He left you. He let you go. Your world devastated. You are crying like mad. Broken heart. Lies. But it's never the end.

Love is quite risky and chancy in its own way. You really don’t know when and how is its ups and downs. Today, you two are so in love with eachother and by tomorrow YOU and HIM are total strangers. But if the ULTIMATE DOWN disembarks – DO NOT PLAY the LOSER. BE STRONG.

You may hold on so tight with your relationship. You get so attached with your term with him that you need awful lot of time to move on after breakup. But think about this:

THE MORE YOU MAKE IT STAY, THE MORE PAIN PERSISTS.

You may want to go on and do everything to have him back but he never let you. Remember this:

ONCE A TRASH HAS BEEN THROWN, IT IS CONSIDERED AS A TRASH.

You may ruin your life because you have believed that he WAS your life. Remember this:

YOU WILL BE OKAY AT THE END. IF YOU ARE STILL NOT, THEN IT IS NOT YET THE END. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN WASTING IT FOR STUPIDITY.

You may seek revenge for he fooled and cheat on you by ruining his life with his new girlfriend. Remember this:

GALATIANS 6:7 "DO NOT BE DECEIVED, GOD IS MOCKED; FOR WHATEVER A MAN SOWS, THIS HE WILL ALSO REAPS..." IF YOU PLAN REVENGE IN YOUR LIFE, REVENGE WILL ALSO COME TO YOU.  LET GOD DOES IT FOR YOU... JUST MOVE ON FORGIVE AND GOD WILL FORGIVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT ARE THE CIRCUMSTANCES. STAY HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN LIFE. AND IF SOMEDAY HE GOT WHAT HE TRULY DESERVES, THEN HE SEES YOU HAPPIER WITHOUT HIM IN YOUR LIFE. BELIEVE ME, IT IS THE MOST PAINFUL THING HE WOULD EVER FEEL. TADA!!! REVENGE AT ITS SWEETEST. SIMPLE BUT DANGEROUS.

It is just the LIFE with him that ends and never your LIFE. Believe that it is NEVER your loss. You did your part. You have loved him but it is not enough for him. It is HIS LOSS. Once a LOSER, always a LOSER.

You are beautiful. Live it. Love it. Embrace it. Tomorrow is another day and a fresh start to LOVE again.

STAND UP, GIRL! He will never have someone like you EVER AGAIN.

LEARN and YEARN (A Love Advice)

          The GREATEST lesson you’ll ever learn in life is to never invest deep feelings for someone.

Never hope that they’ll love you the way you want them to.

       
           Never expect that those sweet gestures and sweet words are true because eventually everything becomes a PAST.

Sooner or later, they will drop you off and will leave you NOTHING.

So train yourself to let go of the things you fear to lose…

So that when they’re GONE…

….you won’t feel used and pathetic all along….

--from a hearbreak survivor

LOOK UP. TAKE CARE OF YOUR

HEART... :)

Confession of a BROKEN HEARTED mean GIRL =)

Someday, after he broke my HEART... I won't be sad anymore... I'll just hug him and say...

"If you will miss me... Just watch over the stars..."

....and if he asks me WHY?

I'll just simple reply:

"Because after you break my HEART, i'll be just a star for you...

YOU CAN ALWAYS STARE AT ME...

...BUT YOU CAN NEVER GET ME ONCE MORE..."

Oh Star... Fall Down On Me...

     Dark Sky...  My Star... And the brand new ME....

   
     I never had this sentiment before... This solitude doesn't make me feel so bad at all. I felt a bizarre feeling of release. This is what I wished for before… Finally, the star made my wish come true…

   
     Sometimes, we all need to be alone for the moment. We need to reflect and envision of what we yearn for in many years from now. Everything has its own purpose but sometimes we never take a moment to comprehend.

   
     Wishing upon a star is not a wrong thing. It never was. It even helps every individual to have this certainty that one day his/her wishes would come true. It is like we are back to being kids again. Pain is just temporary… It would remind us that we are genuine by heart and mind. For the fact that we are defenseless to pain and sorrows, it only mean one thing – we did something right and true by heart, it is just that for that something we are NOTHING.

    
     This is the good time to spare some time to ponder and weigh everything. Feel. Think. And then look up again. Think of that wish you had and hold on tight to it.

     
     You may ask, “Why is this girl talking about pain and moving on?” “Does she even know what is the meaning of pain?” well, I am only 18 years old but in my young age, I know exactly what pain is and how it feels. I’ve been there a million times, both physically and emotionally, but I held on. I am still standing here and living normally because I BELIEVE that at the end, I am going to get through such impair and this will make me stronger and better.

    
     Now, as I look at that bright star at the clear dark sky… I felt it… right in my heart that I should be strong no matter what happens… No matter how great the pain is… All you need is to be believe that you deserve something better… Far better than what you’ve thought was already perfect for you… Learn these 2 things;

    
     Just let go if it really hurts…

     
     And just move on because you are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL.

   
     And I have just realized that the star I’ve been talking to is just the likeness of GOD…