IT IS HIS LOSS and NEVER YOURS. (For Girls)

He left you. He let you go. Your world devastated. You are crying like mad. Broken heart. Lies. But it's never the end.

Love is quite risky and chancy in its own way. You really don’t know when and how is its ups and downs. Today, you two are so in love with eachother and by tomorrow YOU and HIM are total strangers. But if the ULTIMATE DOWN disembarks – DO NOT PLAY the LOSER. BE STRONG.

You may hold on so tight with your relationship. You get so attached with your term with him that you need awful lot of time to move on after breakup. But think about this:

THE MORE YOU MAKE IT STAY, THE MORE PAIN PERSISTS.

You may want to go on and do everything to have him back but he never let you. Remember this:

ONCE A TRASH HAS BEEN THROWN, IT IS CONSIDERED AS A TRASH.

You may ruin your life because you have believed that he WAS your life. Remember this:

YOU WILL BE OKAY AT THE END. IF YOU ARE STILL NOT, THEN IT IS NOT YET THE END. THERE IS MORE TO LIFE THAN WASTING IT FOR STUPIDITY.

You may seek revenge for he fooled and cheat on you by ruining his life with his new girlfriend. Remember this:

GALATIANS 6:7 "DO NOT BE DECEIVED, GOD IS MOCKED; FOR WHATEVER A MAN SOWS, THIS HE WILL ALSO REAPS..." IF YOU PLAN REVENGE IN YOUR LIFE, REVENGE WILL ALSO COME TO YOU.  LET GOD DOES IT FOR YOU... JUST MOVE ON FORGIVE AND GOD WILL FORGIVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT ARE THE CIRCUMSTANCES. STAY HAPPY WITH YOUR OWN LIFE. AND IF SOMEDAY HE GOT WHAT HE TRULY DESERVES, THEN HE SEES YOU HAPPIER WITHOUT HIM IN YOUR LIFE. BELIEVE ME, IT IS THE MOST PAINFUL THING HE WOULD EVER FEEL. TADA!!! REVENGE AT ITS SWEETEST. SIMPLE BUT DANGEROUS.

It is just the LIFE with him that ends and never your LIFE. Believe that it is NEVER your loss. You did your part. You have loved him but it is not enough for him. It is HIS LOSS. Once a LOSER, always a LOSER.

You are beautiful. Live it. Love it. Embrace it. Tomorrow is another day and a fresh start to LOVE again.

STAND UP, GIRL! He will never have someone like you EVER AGAIN.

When David turns Goliath...

Mistakes are throbbing. But they are the only way to find out who you really are…

As the saying goes, “NOBODY IS PERFECT”. For me, this saying is overused but candid. Everybody and anybody commend mistakes. Only God Jesus is perfect.

In my own life comprehension, MISTAKE has two characteristics -- SMALL mistakes and BIG mistakes.

SMALL MISTAKES are those that have a minor impact in our lives. It is like using wrong type of conditioner in our hair. It may cause HAIR FRIZZ but you could fix it with a leave-on hair conditioner. It has alternatives and could be easily and immediately corrected. But sometimes, or maybe OFTEN TIMES, BIG THINGS always come from SMALL THINGS. So, we should stop doing it because it could direct the way to BIG MISTAKES. And what’s worse is that you’ll end up actually living it.

 

BIG MISTAKES are those I prefer to be called LIFE CHANGING MISTAKES. This kind of mistake is very much painful and hard to deal with. But, nonetheless, it must be accepted and must be taken consequence of. But sometimes, you have to make BIG MISTAKES in your life just to figure out how to make things RIGHT.

At the end, it is our DECISION why we did such factor – whether it is SMALL or BIG. But we discover a lot from it and we could contemplate and say that IT IS CHARGE TO EXPERIENCE. These are one of the explanations of the HOW, WHO, WHAT AND WHY of our existing identity.

LESSONS LEARNED as they say. Every move and step we create is definitely our CHOICE, regardless of the guidance and advices from the people around us. YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE. No one knows you better than you do. TAKE NOTE OF THAT.

To wrap things up: Just a little thought. “You will always see what’s wrong when you are right. But you will NEVER know which is right when you are happy doing wrong.”

IGNORANCE should be your BEST ENEMY

“To accomplish great things, we must not only act but also dream, not only plan but also believe…”

Life is a frenziedly route. Everyday of our lives we learn a lot of peculiar things. We learn from it and we also learn TO it.

This world is more competitive now than how it was years ago. Somehow, technology and drastic changes of almost-every-thing has something to do with it. We might be having paybacks from such innovations and inventions. Mostly, the more affected stage of life is US --the TEENAGERS. Change is good if it is for the BETTER. But if it is for WORSE... Friends, that is a different story. Think about Newton’s 3rd law of motion that states; “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.”

Teenager life is the most crucial stage by far in these times. Mostly, all the world’s minor or even major problems are concern with us. Why is this so? The reason may be that we are too adventurous and inquisitive about countless objects. We plan, act and envision almost about the whole lot of things. And this oftentimes points us to two (2) opposite ways – the RIGHT way and the WRONG way.

We are about to attain the adult age. In this age, we are going to expand our consciousness regarding our future and career life. We should know by now that our dependency towards our parents or elders is not permanent. This world does not show any assurance of better living anymore. WE ARE what we make it. WE ARE what we want it to be.

One time, I heard this old woman, sitting next to me at the train, talking to her other friend (I know... Listening to other's conversation is a bad thing but i can't help it. I can hear her talking!), “You know, in our time, the youth used be our hope… but today? I even wish my little grandchildren won’t grow up anymore. I’d rather see them as stubborn little kids who just want to play all day than to be insensitive and happy-go-lucky teenagers. I can foresee how awful the future would be if the teenagers keep on doing meaningless stuffs.” This statement really banged my sanity. It made me reflect deeper. SHE IS DEFINITELY RIGHT. SHE DEFINITELY STATES A WORTHY POINT OF VIEW. We are starting to let them overlook about their belief that YOUTH IS THE HOPE OF OUR NATION.

Uh-oh…It seems like we set off to the wrong direction my friends. So, kids are better than US now? Is this what we want them to believe now? Do you really want this? Or we are just too careless to be selfish.

Let’s activate our new adventure in the GOOD way now fellas. Think about it. Don’t get your colorful and vigorous life stuck in the wrong road. If we launched the right thing, we will end up being right. If we set up the wrong thing, definitely you’ll end up being wrong, unless, you try to make it right at the end. What you are right now is absolutely your CHOICE.

We don’t know the ending of our every story. But we should believe and have stronger faith that we could do better and we could be more useful. But it is all up to us now…

IT IS ALL UP TO US. NOW CHOOSE.

Oh Star... Fall Down On Me...

     Dark Sky...  My Star... And the brand new ME....

   
     I never had this sentiment before... This solitude doesn't make me feel so bad at all. I felt a bizarre feeling of release. This is what I wished for before… Finally, the star made my wish come true…

   
     Sometimes, we all need to be alone for the moment. We need to reflect and envision of what we yearn for in many years from now. Everything has its own purpose but sometimes we never take a moment to comprehend.

   
     Wishing upon a star is not a wrong thing. It never was. It even helps every individual to have this certainty that one day his/her wishes would come true. It is like we are back to being kids again. Pain is just temporary… It would remind us that we are genuine by heart and mind. For the fact that we are defenseless to pain and sorrows, it only mean one thing – we did something right and true by heart, it is just that for that something we are NOTHING.

    
     This is the good time to spare some time to ponder and weigh everything. Feel. Think. And then look up again. Think of that wish you had and hold on tight to it.

     
     You may ask, “Why is this girl talking about pain and moving on?” “Does she even know what is the meaning of pain?” well, I am only 18 years old but in my young age, I know exactly what pain is and how it feels. I’ve been there a million times, both physically and emotionally, but I held on. I am still standing here and living normally because I BELIEVE that at the end, I am going to get through such impair and this will make me stronger and better.

    
     Now, as I look at that bright star at the clear dark sky… I felt it… right in my heart that I should be strong no matter what happens… No matter how great the pain is… All you need is to be believe that you deserve something better… Far better than what you’ve thought was already perfect for you… Learn these 2 things;

    
     Just let go if it really hurts…

     
     And just move on because you are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL.

   
     And I have just realized that the star I’ve been talking to is just the likeness of GOD…